Looking for Love in all the Write Places
     By Dacia Weist, CHAI member
 

 

 

Compatibility is defined as being able to exist, live, or work together without conflict. By

identifying in yourself, your fears and needs, you will be able to better identify what type of personality best

enhances whom you are, thus creating harmony in your relationships. What problems can you avoid by

better understanding your partner? What types of trai8 are you looking for in a potential mate? Finally,

what are the warning signs, the red flags, and the negative traits to avoid? These answers can all found in

handwriting.

 

As a rule, I think its best to start by defining yourself. By doing so, you can then understand what

makes you tick, what motivates you, makes you laugh. Finding someone with your same sense of humor

sex-drive and work ethics is much easier than trying to change someone for your own self-interest. Think

about the people that relate best to you, they are those who laugh at your jokes, have the same type of

imagination and values. By identifying both sides of the relationship, you can see where it comes up short.

Recognizing those imperfections can save heartache and anxiety.

 

To start out with, are you a printer or a cursive writer? Printers seem to do best with other printers

due to the fact they are practical and private. A cursive writer would be best suited for another cursive

writer for differing reasons. Do not entirely rule out the printer/cursive writer relationships however but

beware, they will need a distinctive kind of nurturing due to the dissimilarity of their nature. Printing is a

form of privacy, the spaces created by lifting the writing instrument off the paper offers the writer a

safeguard, a barrier to protect him or herself. People who print give up speed to maintain detachment. There is no suggestion here that printers are not emotional. They feel emotions, sometimes quite deeply, but the printer is able to maintain control over the emotions, they keep the emotional exposure in check.

 

They are those that can identify irony and may not take life as seriously as their cursive writing counterparts may- By contrast, the cursive writer has a need to be around people. They are social animals, craving affection and interaction. Most cursive writers like to talk out their problems and share their feelings. Understanding the basic two writing style differences, knowing the needs of each will greatly improve the relationship. Take physicality for a somewhat common example. ln many relationships, the man is the printer and the woman is the cursive writer. Subsequently, the man is interested in getting the job done for physical gratification, whereas the woman wants romance, to be told she is loved, talked to, cuddled etc. In romantic relationships, this is a familiar complaint but one that can be easily dealt with a little knowledge and consideration.

The next thing to look at for compatibility is the writer's slant. Looking at the up strokes of

connected writing, how far does it slant, and to what direction. Cursive writers that tend to have that perfect slant, one that leans as if pointing to one-thirty or two o'clock on the face of a clock, have the distinct advantage of being able to get along with almost everyone. Although ambiverts show signs of both introversion and extroversion, they tend not to fall into either category. The cursive writer that has this particular slant gets along with the majority of people, printers and cursive writers alike, because of their ability to understand human nature so well.

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For questions on this article contact Dacia at writeright1@gmail.com

 

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